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Introducing The Vivian Dress

Instead of a plain black dress or jumpsuit, look to sequins, velvet or prints - anything that will lift your look firmly out of funeral territory

Amarra 87144 is a Short Fitted Iridescent Sequin embellished Formal Cocktail Dress

Now, when it comes to choosing your families wardrobe I known its easiest to start with the kids (because lets be honest, kids clothes these days are incredible) but I dare you to think of yourself first for once

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The baiana dress is a blend of ancient European Baroque style